The word “bardo” is a Buddhist term often used for the after-death experience. But it also describes the gap triggered by any unexpected crisis. The shock of illness, death, or any kind of loss can be the most brutal of interruptions. Your life’s timeline no longer makes sense. You feel vulnerable and alone. But we’re not truly alone. We’ve just dropped out of everyday life into a new dimension, a bardo-world that appears as if out of nowhere.
In this course, consisting of four recorded and one live session, we will explore how the Buddhist teachings on the bardo can be a guide to keeping our hearts open when life seems to fall apart.
Susan will talk about how working with the bardos of everyday life is understanding how to work with three very different kinds of fear:
Susan will further explore with participants that to work with these three kinds of fear, we can look at three kinds of love:
Susan’s warmth, gentleness, and loving kindness pervade these powerful teachings. Her approach to presenting the bardo teachings is informed by her personal experiences with death which have turned her towards understanding that there is beauty and sacredness in every moment of life. The themes of love and fear, along with the Buddhist teachings on death and dying, have been her central focus over the past few years after being diagnosed with an aggressive cancer in 2020 and she has shared that, “the experience of chemotherapy in particular gave me a taste of witnessing my familiar body and mind dissolve into someone new. The thread I was able to hold onto was trust in the heart-instructions, to bring loving presence to fear, to let go into a bigger space of tender vulnerability, and most importantly to have a deeper understanding of what suffering means to countless others.”
Join Susan for a tender, personal, and compassionate approach to ancient bardo teachings that will feel relevant for everyone who struggles with the groundless and transitory nature of life!
“A bardo is an emotional free-fall. We’ve moved into a strange new neighborhood, or we just lost our job. It’s the morning after a painful fight with our lover. It feels like a sinkhole has opened with our past on one side and our future on the other. We are refugees from the life we thought we had. Like refugees, we need to know where to find support, shelter, and nourishment. The path of awakening through fear is with love. Love is stronger than fear.”
Susan Chapman has been studying and practicing the Shambhala and Buddhist dharma for nearly 50 years. During that time she’s worked in prisons, battered women’s shelters and in private practice as a family therapist. She spent nine years in retreat at Gampo Abbey followed by 10 years serving as an acharya. In 2020 she was diagnosed with an aggressive form of breast cancer and her experience in that living bardo is the basis for a new book and this class. Previous publication: The Five Keys To Mindful Communication.